i thought jaegermonster’s post was right on…
you need to rescind the invitation to the kids. Period. The family, any or all of them are not allowed on your property, that way there is no misunderstanding.
You need to document all your conversations, and write them the detailed letter and send it certified, return receipt.
Here we have a livestock clause saying we can kill marauding dogs. It’s harsh—but you could, like someone else suggested, make him disappear. Screw the people, they aren’t getting it. Maybe having Bowser not show up home might get the picture across.
The signs are imperative—the ones that hold water liabilty wise, and no tresspassing signs as well.
Coupled with the letter, they should get the picture. Hot wire as well—shrubbery is going to take a lot of time to grow, you could still do it, but technically it’s not your problem.
Cover your a$$ from the attractive nuisance thing—hell, could you contact the pony club coordinator as well and let her know the issue?Maybe coming from someone else it might help as well.
And let the police know this situation and just remember to document everything.
Good luck, and may I say you are a logical and well spoken 19 year old with a lot of common sense. It’s a pleasure to read your posts.