"No one else ever rides my horse." Really?

I loved seeing people on my old gelding. Before I got him he’d never been ridden by anyone but professionals, and I am far from a pro. I taught him how to take a joke about distances and most else in life under saddle too. He was beautifully sensitive and forward, so I didn’t let anyone with rough hands on him as I didn’t feel like he should have to put up with that, but as long as you were a soft rider he’d try his best and then stand waiting for the well deserved cookies and love at the end on the ride.

My mare now has only had two other people on her back. I’m not opposed to other people riding her, but they’d have to be better riders than me for me to want to let them. In a few years that might not be the case, but right now she’s green and tries very hard to figure out what each aid is. I don’t want to deaden that at all and confuse her. She’s certainly not at all dangerous though, so I hope that once she’s got more confidence I can help the occasional junior out. Many people were very generous when I was a junior and I’d like to repay that favor.

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My horse was 25 years old before he ever got a “pro ride,” because the farm trainers kept him in work for me for the last 6 weeks while my state was on a stay at home order. :wink:

I’m very selective about who is allowed the privilege of riding my horse. Particularly now, in deference to his elder statesmanship, but I always have been particular. It is a privilege to ride a really well-educated horse, and people need to be willing to be taught by him. (He’s 25 years old. He’s going to go the way he’s going to go.) However, I was also very fortunate as a junior to have been allowed to ride some very nice horses who furthered my education, and I believe in giving back- so in his time, Tip qualified several juniors for local medal finals and took a few to said finals. And he’s currently the professor for my re-rider mom, which is an excellent way of reminding him that indeed, he knows everything. :slight_smile:

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Waves hello.
Yes, I’ve learned to say “permanent advanced beginner “ when describing my riding skills to authorities (trainers, vacation stable instructor.)

I once said, I ride like I look.
And got a long slow look from the manager. Older, check, 30 lbs overweight, check, office job sitting all day.
i think he enjoyed being allowed to assess me by looks and I thought it was nice to give him the freedom to do so.
Cut to the chase, I’m not going to surprise you busting out with some sweet equestrian moves :lol:

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You’ve just about described me perfectly.

But… one thing I realized today is that no one trail rides my mare but me. That’s where the bond developed. I might be willing to walk next to someone riding her on the trail. Maybe. She walks pretty slowly, so I can kerp up!

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Does it matter? Riding is just my hobby. I took lessons when I was in my teens so I’m “good enough”. I can ride my mare and not have major issues. That’s all I need.

She’s a sensitive mare who’s been abused and if you don’t know her issues it’s easy to create a bad reaction, so I just don’t let other people ride her.

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