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Milo-
You know I LOVE dogs and I totally get having a dog who is part of your family.
I would call the vet you like tomorrow and discuss. Anti-emetics aren’t that pricey but I think you need to decide now…like today…what you’re willing and able to do financially, medically and day to day care wise moving forward.
They can ultrasound, radiograph, do more bloodwork, etc. But is HE happy? Can you really DO this without putting yourself in a bad situation? The boarding thing in Nov is a big deal too.
I honestly believe that were I in your shoes at this point, I would work with the vet you like to find a combo of meds that might keep him comfortable, but be prepared that euthanasia is in the near future. Before Thanksgiving.
He can’t feel good about making messes in the house. And he just plain doesn’t FEEL good physically either. If it were me, I’d see what I could do to get him comfy, spend a week loving on him, and be ready to let him go.
I’m really sorry to say that. But every pet has a limit as to what makes sense for them. Your guy doesn’t tolerate hospitalization well, you’re running out of money…I think it might be time honey.
I had to put down my BuddyRoo (horse) even though he was eating well, happy, etc…but we just couldn’t manage his arthritis well anymore. I wanted to let him go before the good days outnumbered the bad. I felt like that was my duty to him. It totally freaking sucked for me. There’s not a February rainy day that goes by that I don’t think of that day. But I think I did the right thing. They don’t get it when they’re sick and feel like crap. And if the prognosis isn’t good? Enough. Enough.
((hugs))
Have you ever watched this thing that was put together on COTH a few years ago?
http://specialhorses.org/thisItBeRight.html
If not now…later, watch it. And know that we all get it. ((hugs))[/QUOTE]
I know you’re right, as much as it sucks to say it.
It’s a big deal for him to go to the bathroom in the house. He just. doesn’t. do. it. I keep telling him it’s ok and that he’s a good boy because he looks like he knows he wasn’t supposed to do it and I don’t want him to think I’m mad at him.
I discussed with my mom who supports my decision either way. Obvioulsy he’s my dog and my choice but she’s dealt with euthanizing our family dogs when they were ailing and she said that you’ll know when it’s time. They just get this look in their eyes.
I think it’s a good idea to decide today, before we see the vet tomorrow, what I’m willing to do for him. It’s easier to make a concrete decision point when you are on the outside than it is when you are actually there with the vet and they are offering all sorts of (temporary) solutions.
Honestly, I think it’s time. I sit here looking at him and he clearly doesn’t feel well. As I think back on the past month, he’s had more bad days than good. Looking at pictures and video of when I got him and seeing him now, I can see how much he’s deteriorated.
He is a once in a lifetime dog… I’ve never had another like him. I decided to take a chance on him as a stray and I’m so glad I did. I know that I’ve done everything I can for him, more than what some people would. I don’t know what his life was like before I got him 3 months ago, but I can confidently say that he’s had a great life for these last 3 months.
In the end, it’s not about the money. I’d figure out a way to make it work if it was reasonable and meant he would be happy and comfortable for more than a week at a time. Quality of life has always been my biggest concern.
He’ll go through the McDonalds drive through, have some chicken nuggets and a cheeseburger, and get lots of kisses and “good boy”'s. I know in my heart that it’s time and it’s not fair to him to keep pressing on.
And now I’m crying. Oh jeeze. 