Pine = soft wood, Oak = hard wood. It really is that simple
various environmental conditions, including how the wood was cured and the integrity of the tree from which it was cut, affect how long boards last and how straight they stay.
SYP is indeed better than white pine - there’s a good reason SYP logs are used for houses over white pine
Fast growing trees, including poplar, are also indeed less dense, making them less structurally sound than slower growing soft woods and hard woods.