OP, I know you specifically said you weren’t interested in the careers that enable it, but I’m not sure it’s possible to tease that part out in responding to your question. So:
Timely thread, because I am looking for almost exactly what you are. You probably ride better than I do right now, since I’m a re-rider who’s only been back for a year. I’m looking for something with the scope to maybe someday go Prelim (not confirmed at the level) because dreams. And my budget is low to low-mid five figures, instead of low five figures, so a little higher than yours. But overall very similar.
You’re getting a lot of answers that say “buy green and make it up”, and that’s great if you have the skills to do it. But experience is what you get just after you needed it. So here’s how I came to both the decision and ability to purchase something in this price range.
I grew up firmly middle class. We were never hungry or had to worry about how to pay the bills, but we didn’t travel, didn’t really eat out, and drove modest cars into the ground. Owning or even leasing was never an option. I was able to ride at all because I begged until I got a once-weekly lesson (which I was very lucky to have, and which was even by itself a stretch) and then worked for more.
All I ever really wanted was the money to have as many animals as I wanted, including a horse. As a teenager I realized I was good at two things–computers and writing–and furthermore realized that one of these paid well and one, well, didn’t. So I picked the one that paid well and was able to start doing it quite young, which means that now, in my mid-thirties, I have been in senior-level roles with commensurate pay for more than a decade. The time commitment and schedule restraints associated with this, plus some other life events, prevented me from riding during that period. A couple years ago I got a job with more hours, but also more flexibility, and a year ago I started back on school horses.
I was lucky enough to make good connections and found an amazing trainer who, before she had any idea that I would ever be the kind of client to buy a horse at all (let alone one in this price range) still gave 100%. She and others at the farm connected me with opportunities in the interim. I think it was quite a surprise to her when we first started talking about buying and I named the figure I did as an option.
Now, I have more nerve than sense at this point, and in general, and I like a hotter ride. I’m a relatively sticky rider, as former lesson kids go… but I’m not a very good rider. I’m in my mid-thirties and I took more than a decade off and I was never very high-level to begin with. But I have two moderately ambitious goals–be good enough to go Prelim, and be good enough to put miles on greenies–and I’m not getting any younger, and if I’m going to make a run at this, understanding that this is at least a five-year project, now is the time.
Could I buy something cheaper but sane and fumble my way up the levels with it with my trainer’s help? Sure, I think I could. Would I probably teach it bad habits, and also myself, in the interim? Also yep. Would it take me a lot longer to get where I want to go, if at all? For sure. Have I spent the last two decades arranging my life to now be able to buy and ride that animal and do this sport? A thousand yeses.
So we’re shopping for a schoolmaster that can teach me, in that price range I mentioned above. Something that I can put in the work with five or six days a week. Something I can learn on. Something with education on the flat that will pack me to the jumps too while I get my eye back. Something that doesn’t have to be in full or even partial training to do this, and something I can work with and improve on with one or maybe sometimes two lessons a week.
And it’s quite a leap, because I’ve never bought a car for myself with anything but cash and the budget for this is about twice what I’ve ever spent on that. (I buy cheap cars and keep them until they die.) I don’t really travel, I don’t get my hair/nails done, and all of my other hobbies are either cheap or free. I max out my 401(k), have a 15-year mortgage on a small house, save additionally, and have an emergency fund. And I give a certain percentage of my income to charity, because I’m so, so, so damn fortunate.
But I have not a single bit of hesitation. Because this is why I did it all. And what this horse will hopefully teach me will enable me to be good enough, some day, if I put in the work, to buy that greenie and put the miles on it.
As for how? I started out by putting the difference between what I’m currently spending for lessons/leases and what I will be spending on board/vet/farrier into a savings account, which made a nice chunk. The rest of it came from my bonus, which is not guaranteed and therefore which I do not factor into my budget that includes all the boring adult things I mentioned above. If the bonus hadn’t happened when I was ready (a possibility), the money would have come from an investment instead or from continuing to save. (I would not personally have bought with a loan.)
Final note: what I’m shopping for is not going to be fancy enough to win, most likely. Those horses that have all the traits I noted above plus the ability to win are more like upper five figures if advertising is to be believed. I don’t care. My goal is to learn and do the sport safely, not to bring home ribbons. poltroon put it far better than I could when she said “tuition, not investment.” But good tuition doesn’t come cheap.