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OP, it’s really hard to read some of your posts due to the grammar, style, and punctuation.
If all you want is people to agree with you, please make that clear from your first post. You really seem to hear only what you want to hear. Not likely helpful in the grand scheme of things.
I do not think your parents have exhausted all reasonable options. If they feel comfortable putting their dog at risk for their own happiness having not exhausted all the options-- that’s their call. They have to live with the decisions they make. Not me.
S1969. My real problem here is that we don’t know whether the problem will go away with something as simple as the dog NOT being the only dog. If all this dog needs is a companion and it’s no longer barking-- rehoming a cute, healthy pure breed like this should be a SNAP. And OP’s parents can find another pom that better suits their lifestyle. What if all this dog needs is a half day of doggy daycare 3 times a week? What if all it needs is to run offleash for an hour? I don’t think we can assume this is an intractable problem-- the OP’s parents have tried almost nothing (2 trainers, each which lasted only 6 weeks, puzzle toys, and walking-- hardly exhausting all the options) I just don’t think there has really been a significant effort to explore all the options. They bought some books, they did some classes, and 6 times a trainer came to their home. And now they’re throwing in the towel. Irresponsible, IMHO.
I might feel different if they had really tried everything… but come on… these people aren’t even willing to try ONE day of doggy daycare (per the OP anyway) see if it makes a difference. That’s hardly someone who has tried everything.
I know a dog that had breathing complications post-surgery and it had a SIGNIFICANT detrimental effect on that dog and absolutely shortened its life expectancy. It eventually died from breathing issues and the last 2-3 years could not exercise/live like a normal dog due to the breathing problems. I would NEVER do that to a dog unless I had no other options. It literally took years off that life and made the remaining ones much less comfortable. I don’t find the risks minimal. And this was a successful debarking with no immediate side effects post-surgery. The problems occurred down the line.
And the dog still barked. It just sounded hoarse.[/QUOTE]
I am sorry my grammar is not well enough for you. Right now I am working 12 rotating shifts (16 hours last shift) and in school full time. So grammar isn’t high on my lists of worry.
What other options are you suggesting? How much time is enough time to try? How much money is a reasonable amount to spend? At what point do you say…send him back to shelter? When would you say this surgery is a viable option? Or is it best they send him back? Is that better for the dog?
No. I don’t want people to just agree and I even appreciate your comments …mostly. I don’t like you believe after 10 months of trying to deal with the barking issue alone and spending well over 2k on this issue that they are not doing enough. In the world I live in most people do not have 2 k to spend on a issue like this nor would they put the time my parents have put into the lil guy. When yes it would be much easier and cheaper and less taxing to send him back to the shelter because of this issue and get another dog. But the fact is…they simply love they lil guy. So honestly its not a money or even a effort issue…its a living situational issue that can not be changed.They would spend more if they could find someone who could identify the trigger for this but so far they haven’t not been able to. Someone posted the example of tail wagging… this was perfect. He barks like wagging his tail.
My OP it was kinda vent and I wanted to know where the cruelty in this procedure was.
From what we read its understood it won’t fix him or stop them…it was more to quite the barking so that it wasn’t a issue that could force them to give the dog up.
Thanks.