I opened this thinking it may have been a boarder at our own barn as our board prices were also increased this weekend.
My largest issue with the inquiry is the assumption culturally we have for the care of our horses. In my corporate job, I have an annual review and raises periodically. If I want to make more money to buy a nice car, a nice house, pay for botox, I can do this by seeking more money, maybe turned down, but it doesn’t make me a bad person for seeking to make more.
Yet with our barn owners, not only have grain, feed, electric, labor prices gone up, but their own cost of living, groceries, insurance… Aside from this, what if they want a nicer house, car, new things. As barn owners is it shameful to want that?
I think the OP has every right to approach a barn owner to inquire if they COULD maintain their prices or work something out, just as they have a right to leave to see if they can find a better deal. However, the thought that its unfair or rude of a barn-owner to increase prices for any reason she wants is outrageous.
(I just had my BO in tears all weekend, afer one adult boarder not only immediately declared she was leaving, but had her mother call other boarders, said she couldn’t believe that their friendship was over… board prices went up $50.)
Come on guys