[QUOTE=Beentheredonethat;9011225]
It’s good to learn to carry a whip, but you certainly don’t need it. My older mare had something done to her, and no matter what I did, she always became unrideable in a whip. It’s not obvious fear, but she gets more and more out of control. At the same time I got another rescue who had obviously been abused with a whip. It took me a long time to be able to ride him with one.
Both were also overly sensitive to spurs. So I rode them both without whip and spurs, and of course I could get what I needed. Both I eventually integrated small spurs on, and the rescue I could eventually ride with a whip. I still can’t ride the mare with a whip. She was an eight year old greenbroke broodmare when I got her. She’s had two babies and I brought her to PSG. She also has a kick ass piaffe and passage, and now she has two sponsors (leasors) who ride her-- all of this without a whip.
So, yes, of course you can. You cannot ride with one in championship and FEI classes, so the idea is everyone should be able to. It’s an aide. If you don’t need it, don’t use it.
For your own sake, you do need to learn to use and carry one, though. Find someone to help teach you how to find the right one and carry one. Unlike Foxtail, I have big hands, so I add a big padded handle to my whips, or I drop them all of the time.[/QUOTE]
Refreshing to read that others have had (accomplished) horses that Did Not Do Whips. We might need to start a support group.
I was once verbally torn down and completely deconstructed in the most Unkind of Ways by a BNT clinician because I arrived at a clinic sans whip (my horse did not do them). She did not hesitate to inform me that my horse was not ever going to be completely broke until he was broke to the whip, that he was not appropriate for the level if he was not broke to the whip, and that my “excuses” were just laziness. I offered her to try him, and she declined.
Needless to say I did not ride with her ever again, and my guy went on to do just fine without a whip.
I don’t know what anyone did to him either, but he was downright unrideable with a whip. He would completely mentally shut down. He was okay with a crop, but would get worried. He was not okay with a lunge whip. I think he might have been beaten to get into the gate or the trailer before we got him with a lunge whip. Many people tried and his lack of “whip-proofing” was not through lack of trying. I tried everything with him – groundwork, professionals tried riding him, I tried picking it up casually and walking on hacks… He was a very well-behaved horse otherwise, and I never needed the whip with him anyway as he was naturally forward. He was a huge worrier, and I think his issue with the whip was fear or pain. He never got over it. I guess to some clinicians, arriving there without a whip is like arriving there without a shirt… it’s a big missing piece of the puzzle that cannot be ignored or hid from.
It’s curious, we have a second horse who is similar but his issue is not fear like the horse above. He will be happy to work with you until you try to force him to do something… when we first got him he had a horrible loading issue and many people immediately went to using the whip with absolutely no progress. He would stop and nothing come hell or high water could move him. I watched trainer[s], handlers, and just about everyone offer to “show me how it’s done” at many a show where he wouldn’t load back up, and none of them succeeded. As anthromorphic as it sounds, I think he had no interest in working with someone who was okay with hurting him – he would get worse if the whip came out. It took me a while to figure him out, but he loads fantastically for me now. His demeanor/temperament is completely opposite: hurt me, f### you. With him, I think he needed to realize no one was going to force him and as soon as he realized your agenda wasn’t to hurt him, he became your ‘partner’ and was happy to please.