The loss of Barbara
I was lucky enough to know Barbara ever since I can remember. I lived across the street in El Centro, Ca and was best friends with both Mark & Pam. When Andy came along he was like our own real play doll. This was a part of her life way before she got with the horsey set. I started riding when I was about 10 so whenever we got together after she moved east we always had lots to talk about. After reading all the blogs I see that Barbara was just the same back then. I really considered her my second mom. I think I spent every Friday nite in there home. I will never forget driving in the old Chevy up to San Diego to take Pam to Batton competitions. It was such a long drive back then but always an adventure with Barbara. She taught us how to cook, sew & clean. One vivid memory I have was at Christmas, she bought me some beautiful red organza material and helped me make a Christmas apron for my mom with lots of lace. I remember being so excited to give it to mom as it was the first time I could give a present to my mom all on my own.
I was lucky to spent a couple of days with Barbara in San Diego last year. Unfortunately it was to celebrate the life of Nick Pappas, but what a great wake it was. Nicki I was so glad to see you again all grown up and to meet your husband. Andy I still remember your great oatmeal. Mark I am sorry I didn’t get to see you, but please call if you are ever in Yuma. Pam you are my sister and know how much you will miss your mom.
I will never forget your mom’s beautiful face and her infectious laugh.
Love to all
Judy