[QUOTE=kaitsmom;7786094]
Yes I read the article. I guess I was meaning to say I appreciated that aspect and thought the information was good. By “posts about weight” I was talking about the posts where people say they saw so and so riding and wonder if the rider is too heavy for the horse. I was just trying to explain why on those threads you don’t see at of heavy riders explaining the measures they go to to make sure their horse isn’t injured or carrying too much weight.[/QUOTE]
Agreed. I’m heavier than I’d like to be, and some of the threads that pop up just make me feel like I should give up on trying to ride entirely because I don’t need the added stress in my life of being hassled about it, and I am at a point with riding where I do need lessons but who’d even let me on a lesson horse? And by weight I am not actually that heavy - there are most certainly folks doing western stuff who pack considerably more load on the horse once you consider weight of an adult man plus all that blingy tack.
I’m probably always going to be heavy for my height - I’m built to have a lot of muscle naturally (good farm stock genetics doncha know) and I have autoimmune arthritis so it can be quite a struggle to keep my activity levels up. So when I buy a horse I expect to keep my size in mind looking at conformation, and to pay plenty of attention to saddle fit and the horse’s activity levels. I just consider that good horsemanship.
(And realistically, one of my friends is also interested in riding and he struggles to keep his weight high enough. I expect to hassle him just as much as I’d hassle myself about those elements, because bad saddle fit is bad saddle fit. You might get away with it for a while with a lighter rider, but it still probably isn’t any good for the horse.)