I am frustrated beyond belief, this morning.
Some backstory:
19 month old Border Collie. Spayed her at 7 months. Kind of regret it.
Yard is not fenced, so I take her and her brother out on leash for bathroom duty.
When the snow melted this year, she started to get “funny” about peeing. Would only pee on snow, etc. Last summer peeing on grass wasn’t an issue. This spring, she was funny the first couple days she didn’t have snow to pee on, but then got over it.
Then, towards the end of our busy season at work, she started “leaking” in the house. At first I thought she was peeing, but then when I saw her do it involuntarily, while lying down (and awake), realized there was a problem.
Ran a urine sample in the next day. This was about 3 weeks ago. They insisted on seeing her, ran the urine, it was fine. Concluded she likely has estrogen incontinence.
Started her on Stilbesterol, things improved. She was still on and off odd about peeing outside…starting to squat, changing her mind, spending more time seeking out places to pee.
This week I forgot her pill, gave it to her a day late. She leaked a bit that night - whatever, no big deal.
But all week since we got back from our trip to the farm she’s been a nightmare about bathroom breaks. Won’t go, ignores me (she has a “go pee” and “go poop” command.), stares at bugs, and is in general distracted. Aggravating as WTF? because she does her “potty dance” and trots from the door to me repeatedly to go out, and then… stands around staring at bugs.
Last night she would. not. pee. She peed when I got home from work and that’s it. I contemplated crating her for the night, but, whatever. So I woke up this morning and she was leaking on the bed. :uhoh: Irritating, but understandable I guess. Take her outside figuring she’ll empty her bladder now… NO PEE.
So I crated her while I got ready for work and then took her out, and after poking around and in general procrastinating, she FINALLY peed.
So…UTI? Maybe? Even though her last urine tested clean?
Whatever it is, I am unbelievably frustrated and at a loss. And when I say “Lex, go PEE” and she stares at me with a “duhhh” blank look, I’d kinda like to smack her. (I don’t, though).
Now…we haven’t been “out” as much since getting home from the farm…a combination of the dogs are tired, and Lex got run overand bowled around by a horse and is somewhat stiff and sore. But normally this doesn’t affect potty routines.
Just frustrated, and doubly so because while my horse vet will discuss stuff with me, I’m not sure we’re even allowed to just call in and confer with my dog vet to see if I need to bring her in, or can just bring in another urine sample (and then bring her in if that doesn’t show anything…again).
I’m not po’d that she leaked (slightly exasperated, as she shouldn’t have, but I understand it as I’m sure her bladder was full and putting lots of pressure), but that she just. won’t. go. when we’re outside.
Hoping maybe someone else has experienced something similar…
I am also wondering…can stilbesterol suppress the “urge” to pee, making her think she doesn’t really have to???