Yep, me too!
Just over 5’1" … short legs … UGH!
Half Chaps – Tredstep! They have separate inch measurements for height and calf width. I have large calfs too, so I got 15" x 15" and they are PERFECT…btw, this is one of those items you really need to have fitted through a local tack shop.
Tall Boots – had to break down and get custom Dehner’s after trying lots of other options. I LOVE THEM…when I first put them on, it was a lightbulb moment “Oh, THIS is what boots are supposed to feel like!”
Breeches – all come to my ankle. The only petite brand I’ve found is Tropical Rider.
Saddles – Not much problem with a jump saddle; I have a Prestige Nona Garson that seems to work well. Short flaps would be mandatory on a dressage saddle, but they are hard to find used, and I just don’t have $$$$ for a custom.
Horse – petite 15.3hh TB. There is no way I could fit to ride well on a horse over 16hh, and I hate the perched feeling. I understand the short arms thing too; somehow I’ve found a way to “ride with longer arms”, but I have no idea how that occurred.
Mounting – it’s never pretty! I have been forced to mount from the ground a few times by dropping my stirrup ALL the way down, but I had to pretty much crawl up – no grace AT ALL. I think my mare was embarrassed for me!
Reaching things at height – stools or climbing onto counters like a child going for the cookie jar.
I would give anything for another 3-4" of leg. <sigh>