I spent over 20 years at a large barn, around 50 horses including school horses and boarders. It has large traditional and therpaeutic lesson programs. What got me back into horses was volunteering. Things exploded over the years and I did everything from all of the chores to sending out the newsletter to helping the BO select and construct her new 120x200 indoor with attached barn. My initials are in the footings, and I installed a lot of hardware including stall latches and rings for crossties. I was the oldest horse owner and oldest rider (coming 75 next month) with the longest tenure. I was highly visible but kept a low profile.
One day when I was still rookie volunteer, a 14-year-old with her own horse and a 5-year friendship with the BO, told me I had just done something dangerous. It was a valuable moment of learning and I did not fault her for saying something to a 51-year-old beginner. She knew what she was talking about. It was my obligation to pay attention to her.
I’ve ignored a lot of questionable behavior until a horse or a human is at risk because a horse was confused or frightened, or was being mistreated. I would ask the person, most often a kid, if I could share some tips I learned over the years. One of the nicest notes I received when I put my horse down came from a college student I had helped when she was 15. She thanked me for helping her train her new young mustang mare to stand quietly and straight in the crossties. They are a beautiful pair.
I can’t ignore situations like partially open stall doors with the latch sticking out. One of the school horses suffered a significant torn laceration about 15" long on her left belly. A BO or staff member can’t be everywhere. They should have a few individuals who will diplomatically admonish someone who is doing something potentially harmful to horses or humans; then turn it into a learning experience. If the recipient complains, the BO can take care of it.
“Jane, remember to always open the door all the way and push the latch back. Maybe pause a moment and check. The doors are only 48” wide. Horses are really good at injuring themselves on almost anything. We had a school horse who suffered a huge torn laceration on her belly rushing out of the stall. She was out of action for quite a while but it healed up."