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Wylde Sage - if you have experienced harsh trainers - first i am sorry for that - second - that has nothing to do with the discipline and everything to do with the person… there are dressage trainers who are for the horse and who are easy to ride with and kind.[/QUOTE]
There are western trainers that are rough also, ignorant also.
No discipline is without it’s good and bad.
OP, go have fun with your horse, wherever that takes you.
Forget what others may think.
That in a way is the beauty of dressage in all it’s forms.
You really can ride and train as you wish.
If you show, listen to the judge, you are paying for that opinion, but don’t let it mean any more than that, one more, if for that setting, educated opinion.
By the way, no need to acquire a defensive chip on your shoulder about it and feel everyone is against what you do, whatever it may be.
Tends to make having fun harder and that is a shame.