I know where you are coming from.
I want to tell those very intense dressage followers to lighten up.
I learned with some that were at the top, one five times national dressage champion and many other awards.
Wonderful people all and they were right to not accept any but the best and know why it was that.
One example, I was teaching a horse the spanish walk and was berated, as âthat is a disuniting movement, not suitable at all for a dressage horseâ.
Ok, I get that, never again while I was there did I cross those lines.
We did what was proven and everything else was wrong and with good reason.
BUT, in most other settings, you do what you want to do and you know, in the end, it just seems to work fine anyway.
It is very insightful that you realized your horse is not a good candidate to be a happy camper with any kind of cavesson and respect that.
Me? I probably would have tried one anyway, very loose at first and then see what happens.
I felt it was not right for that horse, find a way to make it work, or give that up and not use one, even if the rules may ask for one.
Or, like you did, see if another venue may be better for a horse you donât want to use that on.
I would say, there may be some that start with other dressage than traditional and may end yet, who knows, in traditional dressage after all.
I think that associations should not be restrictive, but open to give others a chance and I think Dressage is trying to do that, tentatively at first, without losing who they are.