Oh I totally hear you on this–and I do think we need to be able to have nuanced convos.
I also think this topic is getting as polarizing as some political topics out there–people swing so far either direction with little research or factual data. It’s just so emotionally charged.
When folks come to me with questions, I am more than delighted to have those conversations. So many times people come away pleasantly surprised and a lot more educated on things like whips or the multiple variables that go into why we’ve seen so many deaths in racing (e.g. it’s not just a “fix the footing” problem or a “fix the race age” number–no silver bullet alas). Or why horses would jump things–amazing how many people I come across who seem to think horses don’t “like” jumping. Gets into an interesting discussion of equine neuroscience and natural competitive “drive” and how you harness that.
But when folks come in with minds made up, there legit is no reasoning. I don’t enjoy shouting at walls personally. I usually leave it “you’re more than welcome to come with me to visit my horse if you’d like to know more about his wellness” but so far no takers. Lol.