I hear ya, lol. When I first started posting and or reading comments, replies at times. It was easy to get caught up in the snark the BS. I learned to just scroll right on by and not take the bate. Even on one thread that had people attacking my mother on how she went about something. A person that was held in High respect, worked with and mentored a lot riders who went on to be names in the H/J work, Reserve Champion at the National Horse show, etc. Spent her whole life working with horses and was pretty much her only job.
In short when using anonymous forums, taking advise from those who offer up little to no background information. Take everything with a grain of salt. My comments, opinions also.
In a perfect world everyone would have the money to buy the perfect saddle, pay top dollar for some expert to check the fit. etc.
In my world up until recently I and others who make their living with horses, who get on 5-10+ a day. 2 year olds to teenagers. I canât afford to have the perfect saddle and fit for every horse I maybe working with on any given day. Neither do most of the ânamesâ that I have spent time around. We have to âmakeâ the saddles were have to fit. Which is why people in a âworkingâ barn have LOTS of different saddle pads. This is how it works in the REAL world.
Guess what, the horse rarely if ever had, developed saddle issues. Because everyday after starting out with our âfitâ we run our hands over each horse. Before tacking up and before evening stables. We pick up on subtle reactions/issues and make adjustments to the fit the next day until we have it âdialed inâ. Hopefully we pick on on things and get it right before more serious issues manifest. Be it saddle issues and or soft tissue issues. The âprosâ generally do but not always. Simple facts of life.
If you are lucky to live in a horse rich area with other barns like mine and or the multitude of others in my area (Unionville Pa). Know people in those barns. Perhaps they have some pommel pads of various types, âpaddingâ in general that they will lend you to see what works. With out having to spend $$ going down the list. From saddle pads,bits, girths, bridles, boots, wraps you name I pretty much have it after all these years of collecting. A lot of ât-shirtsâ I still use and a lot of ât-shirtsâ that I am happy to give away. The best thing about them was the advertising.
âThe saddle shouldnât touch anything on âtopâ of the withersâ
This is should be a given. But as buck22 said, things change once out and about and away from the "saddle fitter. As I said above IME there is no one thing, one person that is always going to get it right. Just important to have good hands/touch and pick up on issues before they become issues and adjust accordingly. Easier said the done for the vast majority of people who have not worked and ridden LOTS of horse over the years. And had the good fortune to work under/with great mentors. Not internet/cyber âmentorsâ.