This may be a tangent, but be polite and professional at ALL times, to everyone. A smile and a “hello” costs you nothing and takes the barest of efforts. I have reached the point in my own professional/ financial life where I’d be willing to donate a reasonable amount to someone in your position (a one-time thing, not syndication). In fact, I almost did. Quite some time ago, I met an ULR at a function attended by many mutual horsey acquaintances, and this person was charming and engaging. Must have been because I was with who I was with, had on nice clothes, makeup, and smelled nice, because a few weeks later I encountered this same individual by myself in a different setting. I was hot, dusty, red-faced, probably smelled like the horses I’d been riding all day, and definitely did not look like the successful person I play in a different setting. I smiled (through my sweat-soaked pig-pen haze) but this person looked through me. Not worth their time. I thought, hey, everyone has a bad day, and when I saw them again a short while later, I said “hello”. Nada. oooooh-kaaaay. I totally get not recognizing me- I meet a lot of people in my job, and I’m terrible at remembering people, but I ALWAYS am polite, smile, and make an effort. It goes a long way. Ironically, a fund-raising flyer arrived in the mail that week. I tossed it.