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Yes, OP, if you’re going to move to a place characterized by regional dialects, you need an attitude adjustment. You’re not going to win friends or enjoy your new home if you can’t accept the way people talk. It really is a part of their identity.
I suggest you start by watching Do You Speak American? or the 80s documentary American Tongues if you can get hold of a copy. My students love it. There’s actually a section on Kentucky. People have uploaded parts of it on youtube.
The filmmakers traveled all over the country and interviewed lots of everyday people. They asked them questions like, “Who do you think talks funny?” and “How do you like the way you talk?” The results are fascinating: not only do viewers get to hear Pennsylvania Dutch, Cajun, Tangiers Island dialect, the many variations of Boston English, and many more, but most viewers end up admitting their own linguistic prejudices and learning a ton. It’s a great film.[/QUOTE]
I have a short quiz for you that is fun. My husband does not say y’all he says you’ins…two syllables
Want to take a stab at where he most likely grew up?
In one of the first places we lived we were in the tire shop and the tire guy was an amateur linguist. He picked up on hubbys dialect right away and gave two prospective place of origin.
As to the original poster. I think it is possible for a dialect to be “unpleasing to the ear” especially when first heard. I find nasal upper midwest accents to be a bit this way. But once I adjust after a few minutes it is fine and I no longer notice them. Maybe this is what the OP is referring to. Just the fact that an accent is so different that it jars the senses a bit a first.