I am going to touch on something else and that’s the concept of “toughness”. Someone in another thread mentioned an NFL player that has multiple concussions and shows signs of lingering brain injuries to the point where coaches on other teams said he should be benched. The individual in the other thread said he’s “tough” because he keeps playing.
He’s not tough…he’s cognitively impaired, he doesn’t know how else to earn a living, he feels a need to prove himself, he’s competitive and can’t stand the thought of not being on the top…something else.
I think as a society, we need to really start letting go of the idea that people that do these things are “tough”. They have a different mindset - part of Calvin’s reasoning to keep going may have been a mindset to complete the course but that doesn’t make him tough.
I caution this because “tough” is often, in society as a whole, seen as a positive, as something to aspire to. Everything from the “tough” women that helped NASA build a spacecraft to get the US to the moon to an individual pulling someone from a burning building.
Continuing to play through injury of self or others (horses, team members) is NOT tough.
For Eventing, yes it came from cavalry. the original concept of “over, through or under, as long as you get to the other side” came from the need to get away from the enemy, get the dispatch where it needs to go - the risk to life and limb if you don’t.
But there is nothing in today’s eventing that requires that. There is no “toughness” in continuing on.
I remember some people criticising Buck Davidson for pulling up his veteran 5* horse at Kentucky several years ago because the horse just “didn’t feel right”.
There were also some criticisms of individuals that scratched from Fairhill because of the deluge of rain.
The people that criticized in these two scenarios is that the particular eventers were not as “tough” or lost their “toughness”. That’s where I caution people in speaking of tough - not wanting to do something you don’t have to do does NOT mean you aren’t tough, it means you have the choice now.
The eventers back in the day weren’t “tougher” than the ones today - they were less knowledgeable .
I just wanted to touch on this because I always cringe when I see someone use the word “tough” in this regard.