I have a 14yo OTTB that I have owned for 8 years. We have mainly done hunter/jumper/eq type stuff, but nothing serious as he never liked showing. He is nearly bombproof, and rides in the arena extremely well with other horses and people. The issue is when I trail ride with another person.
I’ve mainly ridden alone the last 5 years, and nearly always at the walk (I boarded in a residential area, so paved roads only). However, I recently moved to a more “rural” area, where there are miles and miles of dirt roads and trails.
The horse is absolutely fine at the walk, either alone or with other people/horses. Very few things will upset him (charging dogs are about the only thing that can start to unsettle him). However, when with another horse, he becomes nearly unmanageable at the trot and downright dangerous at the canter. I can trot with another horse but I am constantly half-halting to try to get him to slow down and not try to run down the horse in front of him. He’s constantly yanking and pulling and being a general pita. It’s annoying, but I can deal with it (luckily the girl I ride with has a very calm OTQH who basically ignores my brat of a horse).
At the canter, however, he practically loses his mind. He wants to canter with his nose ON the horse in front of him. We’re talking close enough to clip hooves. Half halting causes him to tuck his nose into his chest and speed up. The last time we tried (one of the few times), I hit the ground before I even knew he had bucked. I do not know the trails here well, so I have never been in front.
Alone, we can trot and canter nicely and calmly and he responds to half-halts and is a general pleasure to ride, in the arena or out. But once another horse is involved, he has zero interest in listening to a rider.
Are there any tips to being able to trot or canter with other horses? I can handle the trotting issues if I have to, but the cantering issue is very problematic.