[QUOTE=tinyrider;7912136]
I’m starting to shop around for a new trainer and I’m having a hard time. I was hoping to find a trainer that would come to my boarding facility and give me lessons there, but none of the trainers I like do that. I would have to either move to their facility or trailer in for lessons. I really don’t want to move my pony, I LOVE the facility that I’m at right now. I remember about 10 years ago, I tried boarding at a fancy training stable, and I ended up leaving because I never fit in. It was just too persnickety for me, I am much happier at a smaller backyard barn. On the flip side, trailering in for lessons is such a hassle, not to mention the added expense of gas and ‘trailer in’ fees, I’m not sure I even want to bother. It’s supposed to be fun, not a chore…
If you board your horse and take lessons, what do you do and why? Are you completely content doing one versus the other, or are you like me where both arrangements seem to have a negative side?[/QUOTE]
Several times over the years, and in a couple of different disciplines, I trailered in for lessons. In both cases, it was because I was taking care of my own horse and vastly preferred his situation (attention from me, all-day turnout, my feed and hay, no meds) to what he would likely have gotten in those barns. Plus, they were not too affordable. Great training, but indifferent stable management. They are often NOT the same thing.
Your lessons will be of equal quality to the “home team” in most cases, and you’ll be able to show with the trainer if you want to. However, barns can be as “clique-ish” as high school and if being “one of the gang” is important to you, fair warning that you probably won’t be! It just doesn’t tend to happen when you are not sharing the complete experience of boarding in the trainer’s barn.
But if you’re a self-starter who doesn’t need a lot of external affirmation from a peer group to advance and excel, go for it and enjoy! You’ll have the best of both worlds. 