[QUOTE=IdahoRider;4282849]
I had to search a good deal before I found a trainer that would work with me. The instructor I ride with has been a fantastic. Very much worth the effort I put in finding her. She is supportive and pushes me to keep improving. But she has no experience working with a disabled rider, and there have been times when the issue we are trying to address from a strictly riding perspective isn’t fixable from a strictly riding perspective. Keeping my stirrups, especially my right, is something I have struggled with from Day One. But she has no experience in adapting tack for a disabled rider, so the only fix available is what she would tell an able bodied rider. I get discouraged because no matter how hard I try, it just doesn’t work for me. It took another COTHer explaining to me how to rubber band my foot into the stirrup to fix it.
There are so many of us out here, trying to make our riding lives work. I was shocked when these disabled rider threads started popping up. I had no idea there were so many of us! We all know what it is like to have a doctor lecture about the advisability of riding at all. Or to be in tons of pain from just 30 minutes of saddle time. Or how rough it is when you are the only one at your barn who needs help mounting. I wish there was a forum just for us, because the obstacles we face ARE different. Here in Idaho it can be hard enough to find dressage clinics/instruction/whatever. It is ten times harder to find it when you’re a disabled rider.
Sheilah[/QUOTE]
I really identified with what you wrote. I have similar issues with a very nice trainer who is very caring and sympathetic but just doesn’t “get” some of the issues I’m facing. Pain is what I have to deal with when I ride, and I just can’t get my legs in a “correct” position without a lot of pain. When I ride my goal is to relax and enjoy the ride and not do stuff that will cause my muscles/joints/nerves to seize up and cramp or just hurt. So when I try to put my leg in the correct position and that hurts, then the whole reason for my being on the horse in the first place is frustrated.
Today we were trying to work on canter, because I want to get back to cantering, but I couldn’t get my leg in the correct position to give my body a solid enough base for my seat to be secure at canter.
I wish there were some way to have a secure seat and be able to do more than walk-trot, without having to have one’s leg in a certain position (and I don’t mean I expect to canter with my toes down or my legs all over the place, but isn’t there a way to be secure and not in pain?)
So that is what I am dealing with …