Just asking a question for a friend.
We grew up showing fine breed horses and when you pay full training plus day and coaching fees, you can usually safely assume that all you’re gonna have to do is show up at the show and get yourself ready. The horse is taken care of.
My friend is a pretty darn good rider with national titles in her other breed of choice. She recently got into stock horses for a change of scenery and decided to put one of her fillies into training with a local stock horse trainer so that she could have something nice to show without the added pressure of keeping one worked right and prepped right for the showring (she has a full time job, young son, a few additional horses, plus shows dogs).
Filly is doing well in training. friend pays full training and the mare gets worked 3x a week plus a lesson.
We hauled in friday night, bringing my gelding and one of my friend’s other horses.
The filly was there in her stall, not bathed, clipped or banded. Trainer was out to dinner, came back super late, did a barn check and then left. So my friend and I bathed her horse and then got up way early the next morning to clip, band, etc…
My friend did her own grooming touch ups/blacking and had to go track the trainer down with a couple minutes to spare to put the mare’s switch in. She got a 30 second showmanship lesson and went in the ring.
Later that afternoon she rode the mare in her first ever trail class, no help warming up or other attention from the trainer.
Same thing this morning- had to seek trainer to get switch put in. No help in the warmup. He coached her on the rail (had multiple clients in the class). Plus her saddle didn’t get brought along and so she had to borrow one and snide comments were made by the trainer and his girlfriend.
She is rather frustrated with her experience this weekend to say the least- she could have hauled the horse in herself for cheaper and the attention/help she received was beyond minimal. Before she has a heart to heart with the trainer, she wants to make sure that it’s not just “how it goes” in stock horse world.
Any thoughts (I’m kinda keeping my thoughts to myself… I’m not a fan of the guy because he was VERY insulting about my breed of choice, accused me of “knocking into one of his clients” in the arena which… no… didn’t happen. My horse likes his bubble. His client’s horse got upset because we picked up a canter behind him and had to immediately pass because the client couldn’t get the horse to canter and the horse lost it when my guy went past… )