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YOU are not the norm, however, and I mean that in the nicest way possible. <smile/wink> I think that if you’re an ammy with a lifetime horse, or maybe one that is limited/older, you just want to have some fun, then schooling shows are fine. But if that horse is going to be for sale at some point, or you want to see how your horse really stacks up, the recognized shows are the way to go.
AH Shucks! Well I’m sure it comes as no surprise to you that I was often referred to as Abby in school for Abby normal <wink> I do see your point and don’t really argue with it. It’s just that I also see the “other” side and with the second kid going to college, well, schooling shows continue to look more and more appealing. They don’t pay us Humane Society vets all that much and with 9 horses to feed, the announcement we just got in our GMO newsletter that entry fees are going up yet again definitely has curbed my taste for recognized shows.[/QUOTE]
And it is not JUST about the cost of the recognized shows themselves. If most people are realistic about what they are (well meaning, trying really hard, but not very good riders) riding crappy horses not suited for dressage, who can’t afford instruction that is very good very often, then why spend all that money showing to get scores in the low to mid 50s? When you do that, aren’t you really just underwriting the shows for people with more money who have more time to ride, better instruction, and fancier horses? People who, for the most part, look down on you because you don’t really belong there? To pay all that just to be humiliated and feel lousy about yourself, your horse, and your circumstances?
Looked at that way—aren’t the higher costs really too high a price to pay for so much “fun”?