So having a bit of a struggle right now⦠and sorry I donāt post more often, just between work and riding I dont get the chance⦠But quick summary⦠bought her as a 3 year old Welsh/Warmblood mare last Dec and so been working with her this last year. Some months Iām lucky to get in 15 rides, some months Iām riding 5 days a week. For the most part 2 rides a week are lessons. She has great days, and then not so great and very baby days.
But hereās the thing, the horse is a mare⦠and Iām struggling with that bond with her. She is a great fit for me, and has helped my confidence and has great potential⦠but the only mares Iāve owned were broodmares (which I find are completely different) when I bred QHās. Any riding horse Iāve owned has been a gelding⦠and huge personality⦠like enormous - quirky and comical and acted more like a dog with me, wanting my attention, calling to me, just right there⦠She is more quiet and internalizes things, but still a baby - just more like a cat like personality⦠you can look at me, but donāt expect me to do anything FOR YOU.
I wonder is this a mare thing⦠OR I also wonder with all my last horses, the first 2 years of their lives it was me doing all their training (good or bad, and probably more bad then good) I worked at my pace, and a lot was ground work and in the round pen⦠and just watching them⦠and then when they were ready to put those proper touches on I would go to a coach.
This is the first baby Iāve owned while under a coaches program, so even I am feeling at times, this is too much āworkā and less about personality or enjoyment or just going out and hacking in the bush⦠And by no means am I blaming my coach, cuz she is fabulous⦠but its just a different program then Iāve done before with other babies.
Am I over analyzing things⦠cuz Iām also known to do that.