Just got caught up on this and really stuck on something…
Trainer billed you for coaching another rider on your ful lease JUMPER in a HACK during the week to prep him for you???
HUH? That’s helpful to OP because…???
Wanna bet trainer billed the other rider for “Show Day Coaching/Lesson” as well as OP for “Prep”??? Very common scam to bill one client for using the horse and also bill the owner for ‘pro services’ and exsists because of clients not communicating with each other so the double billing remains unknown to those footing the bills.
Once upon a time when head trainer was away on show circuit, assistant trainer gave another client a lesson on my good show Hunter. A week later, had lunch with same client who mentioned how much she appreciated using my horse in her lesson on the 12th and picked up the tab for lunch and wine. I was a little surprised but said nothing-it was fine she got the ride ability wise but I like to be asked about such things. Light hack is fine and we all did that when another client couldn’t get out but it was a light hack for excercise only and not billed to the owner. Nothing more unless owner specifically agreed. Figured I’d discuss it with head trainer when she returned and see what’s on my bill.
Soooo…when that months itemized bill comes in the mail? I have a $50 charge for a “Pro Jump School” on the 12th. Check with the other gal and she got billed $60 for a 1hr private on the 12th. NICE. Assistant trainer was ex assistant trainer after head trainer got home and reviewed the billing finding numerous similar double billing-which was refunded to all affected.
Boy, I think we need to find a really big box of Crayolas for OP to give to trainer as a parting gift in return for all trainer has done for OP and her fellow clients who are kept like mushrooms.