Kids and young adults often do not want to work hard nowadays - go talk to farmers who pick up hay for a living - they cant find anyone to work for them anymore and when they do, they are slow and grumble the whole time. You have to find horse crazy kids with an unusual sense of hardwork dedication or adults.
Your rant is one I have so much that I feel like the bozo - like do I ever learn my lesson! LOL!
I can tell you all sorts of stories - parents who complain that its not fair I let one student work off her extra lessons and not their kid - who goes into the tackroom and pretends to drink water for 2 hours and comes out after everyone has finished the chores.
Or when I teach them how to fill troughs - if its dirty, dump it and refill it - how often are the dirty troughs filled? No cleaning. I have had people leave gates open. Leave feed bins open - letting the mice in. Left the water running all day. Even when I leave a list with a box to check DONE - they check the boxes and forget to do the chores.
When I was 10, I would go to the barn I was at and every single morning before school I fed 40 horses correctly and without need for supervision. Even when I had to dig to the barn door through snow. On the weekends I cleaned 20 stalls on Saturday and another 20 on Sunday. Correctly. If I missed one turd, the barn manager pointed it out to me and if my parents found out I had not done a great job, I would have felt mortified.
Another working student was supposed to feed and water my chickens - she had been in the chicken project in 4H so I knew she knew what to do. It was on her list - because I got to a point where I wrote out clear lists. THUS MAKING MY LIFE HARDER. But anyways, it was in the spirit of teaching kids to work off their lessons and get them to the barn and with their horses more. Well, 10 minutes after she left, I went to the chicken coop and there was no water and no feed. I called her mom and said she forgot to feed the chickens. And her mom asked her - she said she did and her mom said she said she did and that was that.
No more working student.
However, I have this other girl who is about to turn 19 and she has been here since she was 12. On the most part, I do not leave her any lists or tell her anything. She feeds and waters and cleans and sweeps and even exercises the ponies. If we came back from a show - I will go look in the trailer the next day and its been cleaned and all the tack put away.
When I was in California - the best workers we had when running barns were the latinos. One guy brought his adult son up from Mexico to help out and when the son was lazy, he sent him back to Mexico. !!!
Anyways - now since I only have 11 horses here - a number I can manage to care for by myself - I have the one good working student who gets all her lessons for free for working for me Saturday and covering my place when I go on vacation. I can trust everything she does. I let the other more serious riders help with the barn work but they are not paid or compensated. Their reward is getting to help.