I suspect this falls under the same heading as having theater tickets or a vacation planned and getting a positive Covid test or having to quarantine because someone else did, thereby missing the event.
Or getting rear ended and spending hours arranging to get car repaired, dealing with rental cars, and not getting reimbursed for all of it for months. Still better than getting rear ended and badly hurt or killed.
Years ago I had to scratch a show bc of lameness. I got most of my deposit back, but not my stall, which was in a permanent barn. Their logic was that they had to pay the facility up front for X number of stalls before the event. So no refunds despite the fact that the facility wasnāt sold out and they didnāt have to pay to temporary stalls.
Definitely sucks though.