i have had some REALLY tricky horses so previously i would accept pretty much anything if it wanted to win in the ring lol!
we have dealt with horses that wont load, horses that bite, kick, nap,rear,buck,wont be clipped, wont lead etc etc.
the only one we gave up on we did so because his rearing suddenly worsened and we couldnt find out why despite a prolonged vet work up and once out of work he started to attack people in the field, so he was PTS.
currently we are lucky and have 2 talented but pretty chill competing horses and the super chill old retired dude.
the little OTTB has to be hobbled behind to stop him kicking the crap out the lorry, and he is the fussiest eater and he MUST NEVER be left alone in the field. but he is the softest, most trust worthy horse ever and will stay in the stable for hours with the door open and would never bite or kick.
the 4yo is a chunk of a WB stallion so does tend to be a bit more lit up away from home but even so probably the only things i allow are that he chews leadropes and has to be hobbled in front to stop him climbing all over the partitions in the lorry.
other than that he is a cutie pie and my OH’s 10 and 7yo daughters handle him happily and easily.
my EDT does teeth of top horses all over the world and the stuff the top grooms deal with…omg!
im 32 now and put up with a lot less than i did at 16 or even 20yo lol!!!