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A reoccurring theme in these posts is “financially able”, “in a position to”…
Those of us who fall into that category and are able to make decisions based solely on the well being of the horse should count ourselves very lucky indeed.
But we are in the minority of horse owners. We are looking at this issue with rose colored glasses, and our horses are the beneficiaries.
The thread which prompted this thread was the discussion the pro’s and con’s of donating horses to a school/college/IHSA/Therapeutic program when a horse could no longer do what his owner wanted to do.
WHAT THEN?
I cannot quote statistics, but I believe that most one horse families are just that — able to maintain one horse. When the current horse gets too old or too creaky, and yet buying a second horse is not financially feasible, what then? I don’t think that anyone should feel obligated to maintain an old or “unsound for the intended use” horse at the expense of giving up their riding goals. I am definitely a pragmatist.
Providing 10 - 15 years of retirement is not within the reach of many people, unless they devote their equine budget to taking care of that horse, at the expense of their horsey goals and enjoyment.
If the horse is given away, donated, sold for a low amount, the owner loses control of their old friend’s future. Contracts, right of first refusal, etc, are hardly worth the paper they are written on. If the old guy is moved on from an approved situation, there is nothing the prior owner can do except sue for breach of contract. That is an expensive and frustrating option.
If I owned a horse who was no longer able to be a partner in my equestrian goals, and if I could not afford to buy another horse because I was still supporting the first one, I think I would seriously consider euthanasia. Not saying I would necessarily do it, but it would be one option I would think about. The future is uncertain – no one can know how their old friend will end up. But who wants to play the odds that their horse will never reach the end of the road at New Holland, or in a field with other, more dominant horses who take his food and pick on him until he becomes a walking carcass?
Lady E has said that she will NOT (emphasis hers) euthanize a horse who is not in physical need of it. Neither will my primary vet. – So what kind of dilemma are these owners, who want to be caring and do the right thing, caught up in?
I will never second guess another person’s choice in such a situation. The world is not as black and white as these vets believe. There are so many shades of gray, that “the right decision” may not always be the decision we would want to make.[/QUOTE]
I’ll bite here. I’m a “one horse owner” and realistically will be for the foreseeable future. My current horse is 20, so this topic stays in the back of my mind. He’s still in fantastic shape, which is a blessing. When he’s not, well, I’m not sure what I’ll do. Ideally, I’ll find him a low cost boarding situation and be able to afford lessons for myself. I am blessed with many good friends with large acreage that’d retire him, if I asked (I’d pay upkeep, of course). I’m not sure I’m comfortable throwing him out in a field away from me, though. He likes attention a lot and is “just living” worth it? I’m not convinced.
I do have a “vet care” number, or rather metric, for him and it’s pretty low. I’ll spend more if it’s stretched out/less invasive/less painful than something invasive or painful. We opted out of laying him down last year for sinus surgery. I love him to pieces and can’t really imagine life without him. I also can’t sacrifice my financial future for him, though. I also maintain that it wouldn’t be fair to him to keep him going through something painful. Tubing for mild choke? Done. Call the vet, have it done. He’ll be fine by morning. Surgery? Nope. Kiss his nose, tell him he’s the greatest horse to ever life, and say goodbye.
I’ll note that he does have a “savings account” of sorts. It’s not terribly large, unfortunately, and is more for emergencies than retirement.