While I have always been very passionate about horses, I knew even has a young teen that I would never have the drive or the talent to be a professional. I have always lived my life with a eye to the horses as a hobby. At no point would I have committed my life to the SRS.
As a forty-something adult looking back, I made the absolute right choices for me - I have no regrets that I had a great career and a family, and that my riding will always be second, or third to something else. Horses are a really important part of my life, but not the epicenter.
Kudos, though to anyone who is that dedicated! There’s nothing wrong with choosing to dedicate your life to horses, or choosing to dedicate your life to your family, and have horses on the side. I think our individual happiness lies in the “choosing” bit. If you get to choose, I imagine you are more likely to be happy than someone who has had to pursue a life based not on their own choices. :yes: