Exactly. Your horses, your rules.
But a student’s goals?
“I am not an eventing instructor. If that is your goal, you might want to look for a different instructor”.
I wanted to event when I was a kid, after watching Gill Rolton at Atlanta. What a ride! Now I just want a quiet horse to pop over a cross rail. Goals change. People change. Kids grow into and out of dreams quickly enough without killjoys putting pins in their dreams.
Who knows, the next crowd of youngsters coming up with Boyd and Tamie and Michael in their ambitions might be those who make eventing a safer sport, a better sport.