There are some kind of ridiculous claims on here…coming from good intentions, I think, but still pretty uneducated. No one wants to be on a horse going cross country that can’t read a question and say, “no, I don’t understand this, I’m not risking us”. To say that all upper level eventers are conditioned to never say no is wildly misunderstanding the sport. Maybe once upon a time this was how it was, but not today. Event horses are taught how to answer questions, not blindly leap over and through what is in front of them. If they are shown to not be able to read the questions, they are removed from eventing or backed down to reinforce the concepts. Likely some accidents occur from those that don’t recognize their horse can’t read the questions, but that doesn’t mean that is what eventers want.
And while I don’t always agree with Jealoushe and the things she posts or the way she posts it, I really think that was all blown way out of proportion. I got the impression she has been told things from people in that world, which may or may not be true, but there also is literally no way to prove it. I can also say that I know reiners that have died from ulcers due to stress from never being turned out because of having sliders, or from finally being turned out and breaking legs because they weren’t USED to being turned out. I know barrel racers that have gotten seriously injured during races and either retired or euthanized. I know hunters that couldn’t handle the stress of frequent long shows with no turnout and became so aggressive they needed to be completely restarted. I know eventers that were run cross country but never learned to relax enough for dressage and are neurotic messes. I know horses in just about every discipline that have been majorly messed up, mentally or physically, for one reason or another. I can’t prove ANY of this because it’s my own experiences. And yet, it’s true. That doesn’t mean you have to accept it as fact, but being rude about me not being able to prove it also isn’t cool. You can say, “I can’t believe you without hard evidence”, and that’s totally valid. But the rest has gotten a biiiit excessive. And I’m saying this, again, as someone that has disagreed with lots of things she has said before.
Adding, I’m not condemning any of the disciplines for those experiences either. Just pointing out that I can state things that are true to me, but that I can’t prove to you (g) otherwise. Whether they are actually true or not.