So, Chelly is here. After a long, long (GA to Wisconsin) round trip to pick him up, we are now a two-dog household. He is a 10yo intact male English Cocker spaniel and was returned to his breeder when his previous owner had a minor stroke and fell and broke a hip. (Intact because he is a finished show champion and she did breed two litters from him prior to rehoming. He’s been all over the house, supervised, and thus far has displayed marking behavior only outside).
Zoe is our long-time (since puppyhood) 8yo female, spayed, English Cocker. She’s been in multi-dog situations before; at one time there were four Cockers. When I moved in I brought my elderly dog Simon with me and no one batted an eye. It was as peaceful an integration as could be imagined, but she has been a solo dog for two years since Simon passed away.
So. Right now we have two very stressed dogs. We got in late last night and introduction, off property, seemed uneventful at first. Chelly’s nonstop checking out the house, but there has been one minor incident.
SO and I have been trying to “think like a dog”, knowing that Chell has been under constant bombardment with unfamiliar sensory input. But we failed to consider that he’d sort of defaulted to us as his protectors during the 12 hour car ride, and he snapped at Zoe when she came “too close” to me. It was a warning; he didn’t try to make contact even (no lunging at her). So now she leaves the vicinity, though not the room, when Chell comes in, preferring to keep some distance between them.
They were both crated last night for bed, which is something Zoe knows but she didn’t appreciate after years of sleeping wherever she wanted. We tried to feed them in crates this morning but Zoe looked horribly unhappy with that arrangement and Chelly was all “no way, I’ve spent the last 20 of 24 hours in that damn crate and I am DONE”. He is still a little too stressed to eat, though he has accepted a couple of cookies.
At this point I am not really worried. It’s very early in the process, and there’s been no outright aggression, just Zoe avoiding him. I know it’s got to take its course, but any suggestions are welcome.
1- Crating. The hope is that we can eventually allow both dogs the run of the house when we’re home (which is pretty much all the time, as I WFH). Last night the crates were side by side; should we move them further apart? I’ve already figured out that feeding can be done in different rooms since no one seems happy about eating in the crate.
2 - Giving attention. Both dogs are typical English Cockers in that they’re very in-your-lap dogs wanting cuddles. We’re trying to reassure both dogs that everything is cool, there are two people and two sets of hands, more than enough for two dogs. Tips?
I know a lot of it is just time. Some dogs adapt more quickly than others but trying to force interaction never works out.
Slight progress just now; we were all in the kitchen and Zoe felt okay enough to move in for a cautious butt-sniff.
I will post photos when everyone is still enough to take them.