So this thread got me thinking about this while riding 3 of mine yesterday. Actually, I have to ride one of mine without a girth right now, so I may have been a little distracted about the idea of survival while riding him in the brisk fall air, but I definitely thought about it with the other 2! :lol:
I’ve always heard and said that the rider should have even contact/pressure from the upper thigh through the knee (which, yes! should have contact, but should not, of course, be gripping as the only anchor point) and down the calf to the ankle. But I couldn’t picture whether my actual ankle touched the horse. So on the two horses I was able to use brainpower on:
My no-stirrups horse: She’s a little round-barreled and not very big (15.3), but I thought that perhaps because I ride her without stirrups my ankle would rest against her side. Nope. The contact with my leg stops just above the top of where a paddock boot would sit. As others commented, I’ll add heel/spur pressure while doing lateral work, but during the regular sitting trot, posting trot, and canter, my ankles were (stable and still, but) not resting on her sides as I envisioned. The primary pressure for posting, 2-pt, and even just sitting comes from my upper thighs down through just above my knees, and then my upper calf right below the knee, while the majority of my lower leg just rested on her sides for stability.
My upper level horse (with stirrups): He’s big (17h) and slab sided, and after riding my mare I was sure that my ankle would be resting against his side. But nope. The only way to create pressure from the ankle was to turn out my toe too far and destabilize my knee. And since this used to be my kryptonite, it definitely isn’t something I can do without risking slipping back into the abyss
Again, with him I use my ankle/heel/spur when necessary, but it’s a momentary usage asking him to move his ribcage, not a constant pressure. With stirrups my leg usage remains the same with most of my pressure/grip coming from my upper thigh down through just above my knee and then the top of my calf just below the knee.
I agree that you may be over thinking things a bit. I can say from experience that riding every single day without stirrups was hands down the best thing I ever did for my riding. It took away issues with crookedness, leg position, and body position and I’m committed to continuing to ride at least one horse a day without stirrups for the foreseeable future. But in lieu of doing that, I would spend a lot of time in 2-point, standing straight up in the stirrups, and posting different patterns (up, up, down, for example) with a focus on even leg contact from upper thigh through calf. As long as you keep your heels down your ankle will take care of itself. Follow Ambitious Kate’s instructions for finding where your leg should lie, and then focus on that position while trotting and cantering.
Oh, adding that I totally agree with Ambitious Kate except for the 2-point comment where I think the majority of your weight should be in your upper legs with your calves simply resting against the horse’s sides (though certainly more “weight” in your calves than your ankle).