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Of course, you need to be able to ride as well as you can but thinking “chin up, eyes up, arch in my lower back, hands perfectly together, shoulders back, etc” is rather pointless. You just instinctively ride and it is very liberating. I jumped some things cubbing that would have scared the crap out of me in the ring because I get so intent on making it perfect. In the field, I just wanted to get to the other side so we could go on. As long as I was in balance with my horse and didn’t interfere, it didn’t matter where we left or how we landed (as long as it was safe of course). [/QUOTE]
This, to me, answers the question in a nutshell. If you’re riding to stay on, you’re riding to be “in balance with your horse and not interfere.” True HSE comes from doing this - stable leg to get yourself off the horse’s back, following hands, body leaned forward but not in front of the motion, chin up for balance, etc. If you’re riding to LOOK PRETTY, you’re riding for “chin up, eyes up, arch in lower back, hands perfectly together, shoulders back, etc.”
“Pretty” is a subjective thing. Put a pic of yourself in front of George Morris doing all those things to stay in balance and not interfere, and you’ll get high marks for looking good. Go into the hunter ring and some (not all!) will respond to someone standing up in too long stirrups (lengthens the leg line) way off the horse’s back (makes it look like he really jumped you out of the tack), with hands floating above the crest halfway up the neck (look, ma, he needs no hands!), ducking to look at just how high the horse has jumped. That’s THEIR “pretty.”
Saying that if you ride to stay on you can’t ride to be pretty is like saying that Heidi Klum looks like crap at the grocery store because she’s wearing jeans, flip flops, and no makeup. It might be minimal, but she’s got all the right equipment to look great, and she does.