i use a happy mouth pelham on my 3’3’’ junior hunter, as it works the best for both of us as i have tiny arms and the extra leverage that the pelham provides can get the point across when i pull on the reins. however, my horse has a pretty sensitive mouth and enjoyed being switched from a slow-twist to a happy mouth bit.
lately i have seen almost no hunters with pelhams, only big eq horses. are pelhams still “accepted”? or do most judges penalize more than they would for a horse in a plain d-ring? im trying to figure it out as id like to see how my horse would react to trying a happy mouth snaffle or even a mullen mouth, as we have tried a plain single jointed snaffle before and it was still too harsh for her.
if anyone has any ideas of bits i could just test out that would be super helpful! id like to try going for very little leverage as i have also ridden my horse in a halter and bareback many times before (backyard horse shenanigans) and she actually responds really well when theres less pressure. she sometimes gets heavy on her forehand, and avoids the bit frequently which is why i think she doesnt like the single-joint in bits.