So my boyfriend and I have been boarding our horses at our current farm for a year. The farm we are at has been rented for just over a year by a very nice, horse savvy person, and for the sake of this story, I am going to call her Kate. The farm itself has had some bad luck with people. Previous trainers who have rented it out usually leave the place after a few years with a massive drinking problem and a ruined reputation. The farm has a smaller indoor and a lighted outdoor, but from day one, the lights outside never worked. That’s the farm owner’s responsibility to fix, but he claims it will cost $14,000 so he won’t do it. (Now I don’t know much about lights, but I highly doubt it will cost that much. Perhaps the drinking problems developed by the aforementioned trainers were brought on by this guy’s constant nonsense.) The footing in the outdoor is sand, and its fine. Over the summer it was unusable because it got overgrown with weeds which was a bummer, but fall rolled around and the weeds died and we rode in it for a little while. The footing in the indoor is largely dirt I think. 20-ish years ago, someone thought that they would try out wood chips to see if that made okay footing. It didn’t, and every once in a while wood chips get churned up but they haven’t caused an issues. It’s just weird. And then Kate has been telling us since before we moved in that she is going to get a tractor so that she can drag the arenas. But a year later, there is neither a tractor not a gator, just two arenas that are a year overdue to be dragged. And its dangerous. The footing in the indoor is especially uneven.
And to make it worse, the half of the barn that the owner of the farm uses to store tractors (go figure!) for whatever he does for a living flooded several days ago, and it overflowed into the indoor, and now almost an entire longside is soaking wet. And it’s not draining, its making puddles everywhere and those puddles are sticking around. And then he drove a golf cart through it, and made terrible tire ruts that we suspect will never go away.
We like Kate. She is good with the horses, and we want her business to do well. We have found that most boarding situations are a compromise. If the care is good, you pay an arm and a leg. If the price is good, someone that you are dealing with is crazy, or lazy, or dumb. If the care is good and the price is reasonable, there is a wait list for eons. We get it. What we are dealing with in Kate is someone who is undermotivated. And really, that’s not so bad. Kate also allows me to work off part of my board every month, so I have a good thing going for me. But at this point, we have no place to ride. If I wanted to put in 30-40 hours of farm work in every month and have no place to ride, I could keep my horse in a field for $100 a month. But I want to ride, and this is getting old.
So this leads me to my questions. If Kate could drag the arena, would the flooding be such a big deal? Should I be angry with her? Or should I be angry with the farm owner for not fixing his leaky barn, or fixing the outdoor lights, which are his responsibilities? Do we keep trying to wait this out? Or do we leave?