I was arguing all night with some fine folks about SafeSport before someone kindly messaged me and told me that many of them were either suspected/known predators themselves OR in bed with them somehow.
One gal’s very useful retorts when I was posting the process (they were insisting that it was just willy nilly) was “Are you a lawyer? Because I am”.
I’m exhausted.
Preponderance of evidence is what is used already in civil cases. There are penalties for reporting without cause. There have only been like 40-odd suspensions in Equestrian sports and there are hundreds of thousands of us who are competing members who are subject to SafeSport. Statistically, that means we’re still not even scratching the surface of getting all the predators out.
I don’t understand what is so hard. I have several minors who work/ride at my barn (I own a small boarding barn). I have their mom on our text messages and another responsible adult on our group chat. I am not alone with them unobserved. Not because I’m a creep, but because I’m not stupid. This burden is not high. It does take a little remembering, because these are the first minors I’ve had here and I haven’t been a USEF member in a few years because I haven’t been competing (we historically had all adults) but it’s fine.