@RedHorses,
You didn’t mention a specific diagnosis, but your symptoms sound like mine, so I’m just going to list things that have and haven’t worked for me. Your mileage may vary!
I have two bulging discs, degenerative disc disease, arthritis and ankylosing spondylolysis. When it’s acute, I have a burning pain in my lower back that is worse when walking or standing, better when sitting or laying down. Couldn’t walk a block at its worst. Once I am ON the horse, riding is okay, for the first hour or so, but just the bringing the horse in, grooming and tacking up had me at my limit. Putting the horse away and walking back to the house was very, very difficult. And yes, when it was at its worst, I would collapse.
Things that help, roughly in order:
Retiring from my job so I can focus on my fitness and health.
Exercising in a heated salt water pool, with strength training and a lot of stretching. Magic!
Stretching.
Physical Therapy including manual traction.
Spinal epidural injections (results vary depending on where the injections are placed. Got much better results from the second round.)
Acupuncture (strictly palliative, but allowed me to go on a riding trip I couldn’t have otherwise.)
Losing weight and getting fitter.
Routine use of diclofenac and tramadol (I have lots of other arthritis related issues.)
Very expensive back brace. (Took pressure off my back, but hot, uncomfortable and awkward.)
Ridiculously expensive pillow (keeps me sleeping on my side with spine aligned.)
Things that didn’t help or weren’t worth it:
Gabapentin (made me stupid and didn’t do anything for pain.)
Stronger narcotic painkillers (Oxycodone and Hydrocodone.) Only somewhat helpful with pain, not worth the side effects. Helpful to sleep at night.
A wide variety of self prescribed back braces.
Chiropractic. (helped other stuff, didn’t help the back)
Massage. (helped only briefly)
Topicals.
Arthritis supplements. (MSM, glucosamine, tumeric, etc.)
Things that I haven’t tried yet that are on the table:
TENS (I used one during PT for a differenct injury and they’re quite effective.)
Spinal nerve ablation.
Laminectomy/fusion. (Putting off as long as possible, maybe forever.)
If you’re not already seeing a chronic pain specialist, I would recommend it. Chronic pain is EXHAUSTING and it sucks the joy out of a ton of everyday activities.
Wishing you less pain and more joy.