Hello I was hoping everyone here could give me some advice on a problem that’s pretty much brought me to a standstill with my riding. I have a very wide horse and regardless of the saddle I ride in it feels like my left hip is being torn out of the socket. When I mount up I have to sit and let the pain pass and then try to stretch out my leg and hip for a few minutes. My two legs are always uneven, one back further than the other and one higher than the other. I always feel unbalanced and as if the saddle is crooked. The stirrups feel like different lengths although they aren’t. I feel like I’m always fighting to keep my legs under my body, they want to swing way back. I don’t use a trainer and have no long term dressage goals. Just use some basics for suppling and establishing flat work.
When I ride different horses, that are narrower, I have none of these issues. I actually ride bareback quite a bit or with a bareback pad so it’s not a matter of different brands of saddles. The same thing happens even with no saddle. So is the problem just that I cannot ride a wide horse due to my own conformation? I saw a physical therapist about ten times for the pain and she said my hips were not necessarily unlevel, rotated, or anything abnormal. I’m doing exercises for core strength, but I’m relatively thin and in shape and she was pretty confused why I would be having these problems. I thought perhaps the dressage experts had dealt with this before and could offer some help? Thank you!
P.S. I’m posting this as an alter.