I’ve recently started taking dressage lessons (my background is primarily saddleseat as that was most available and then I rode at a western barn for a year). The facility and horses are beautiful and well-maintained – it’s like my dream barn. But I’m not finding it that fun or interesting (I want to be a better rider, and I thought this would be a good direction to go in). I don’t know if I just need to give it more time.
I don’t enjoy working on myself so much. For example, I’m posting, and I know one hip is slightly more forward than the other, because the horse’s movement is throwing me that way. I don’t know how/why I correct that. I mean, I understand how very slight shifts in my weight will tell a horse something, but I’ve also always been taught to let the horse do the work and follow the horse’s motion. Or I’m told to move my chin one centimeter to one side – how do you even see that, and does it really matter?
I like figuring out how to ride different horses and working on the horse, and I know that requires a solid seat, but striving for perfection in myself… it doesn’t speak to me.
I am trying to keep an open mind. I want to care more – dressage is the foundation of everything! One of my friends that is a dressage rider suggested learning dressage at an eventing barn (there’s none in the area, but maybe it would be worth trying different dressage instruction).
After most non-dressage lessons, I’ve felt energized, excited, happy. After dressage, I am like, ugh, I have SO much to think about and that was a lot of work! I don’t know if I am being too impatient with the building blocks (I feel like a total beginner), but I just don’t get it. Is this normal for beginning dressage, or should I be considering a different direction?