New York State, Western NY, near Rochester. You would be near Finger Lakes Race Track, and Saratoga, Belmont and Aqueduct are located to the east – not that far away, if you want to do a weekend. The only thing on your list that we can’t provide is Quarter Horse Racing
The suburban schools around Rochester are excellent, our Falls and Winters are beautiful. Winter’s a little long, but I know what you mean about the sun, and would much rather put up with that than hot, muggy, sunny weather.
Rochester has plenty of h/j barns and shows. Plus, the Genesee Valley has loads of eventing activities that are fun to go watch and the second oldest established hunt in the country.
Culturally, Rochester is surprisingly sophisticated for a city of its size. Music is a strong point, with a Philharmonic orchestra, a very strong and growing Jazz festival and loads of small clubs where you can find some excellent entertainment. There is also an excellent science museum, that has special activities for the kids on school breaks and during the summer. It has a lovely art museum, too.
The Finger Lakes are nearby. The scenery there is some of the most beautiful in the country. In the Fall, there are lots of drives to take with color that only New England can exceed. It’s Wine Country, too, and chances to tour small wineries are many. Again, there are lots of small festivals in the area, celebrating just about everything that can be celebrated.
Rochester and the surrounding area also, typically has the lowest unemployment rate in the state, with lots of small healthy businesses. The focus has always been on technical industries, with a well educated workforce.
I’ve lived in the area my entire life. I visit other places, and many of them are lovely. But, I’m always glad to come back home.