Let me clarify I am not a beginner rider by any means. But in my 20 some years of riding I have never used spurs. However I am at the point that I need my first pair. My horse is not sensitive by any means. He is used to being ridden in spurs by my trainer and it helps a lot with his lateral work. I want something gentle that won’t be harsh if I mess up while I’m getting used to them. I found a couple that look like they would fit the bill. Where should I start?
https://www.statelinetack.com/item/weaver-ss-21st-century-mens-knob-end-spur/H817702/
https://www.statelinetack.com/item/diamond-r-mens-multi-purpose-spurs/E035044/
https://www.statelinetack.com/item/mens-german-silver-aztec-trim-copper-dots-spur/E045288/
ETA These are all men’s spurs because I have big feet (women’s size 11-11.5) and was told men’s spurs would fit me better.