Oy, just the thought has my knees aching…Eiy.
I’ve never ridden in a western saddle for more than 30 minutes without having to kick my feet free. I think the stirrup attachment things that swing the stirrups out would be the best bet for someone looking to avoid that.
That said, go for a ranch saddle. My BF has one custom-made from a name I can’t recall, the guy only makes like 10 saddles a year but they are creme de la creme or however that goes. He was at a roping thing, and the calves were fresh and rank bastards. He got one out of the chute and as he was dismounting, the calf swung wide around and his mare didn’t, and the calf got behind her and it was a (as he says) “heck of a wreck.” She got to running and dragging the calf, and with the neck rope it basically choked her out and she flipped and crashed, and ~1300 pounds of deadrun mare hitting the arena was not something I want to see again. She was fine after they cut the rope and she caught her breath, and calf was fine as it was turned loose before my BF could kill it…and the saddle doesn’t look like anything happened once he rode some of the dirt off it. THIS is what an unhappy cowboy looks like after his beloved mare has a wreck like that.