I’ll weigh in here.
I had my breast reduction 8 1/2 years ago; I was 59. My parents had died the previous summer (my surgery was in January), and I used some of the inheritance so that I could pay in full - I was/am not overweight and was "only* a D, DD cup - but have had a bad back for years, and the boobies were sagging and constantly “got in my way” - I hated them!
I had wanted a reduction for years but my overbearing mother would say “just starve yourself”! and mock me for considering it. Her death was freeing, and full steam ahead - better late than never!
I was not “large enough” to qualify for insurance coverage of the reduction (alas), but it was worth every penny! I asked the surgeon to go as small as possible but he said “we need to maintain blood flow to the breasts” (OH ALRIGHT) so I wound up with a large A/small B.
Previously, I had to wear underwire bras which would dig into my ribcage and press into my stomach, making it hard to breath - I’m only 5’2-5’3" so the breasts were incompatible with my frame (and I had to repeatedly pull the bottom of the underwire bra up and out to relieve the pressure on my stomach), so the FREEDOM to wear lightweight bras without wires was incredible!
(I did previously try the “push them in” control bras but they were painful and tight and again I felt like my ribcage was being crushed - plus I have fibrocystic breasts so those bras were painful!)
I am SO much more comfortable, and the surgeon did a wonderful job; they are high and perky now and I feel and look so much younger - Hallelujah! - I can and do go braless. It’s such a relief!! I can pull my shirts on and off easily, and my posture is much better.
I really feel like it’s improved my riding and I look more elegant on a horse; I can stretch up and keep my shoulders back so much more easily without the weight of the “fun bags” to support.
I don’t regret having them when I had my daughter at 37 because I breast fed for a year, but had my mother not been alive I would have (SHOULD HAVE) had it done when DD was younger. My biggest regret was not doing it sooner, it was life changing.
My immediate post surgery experience was rough, though.
I have a lot of pain issues and I was in tremendous pain - the opioids were barely touching it. I would just sit in a chair and cry from the pain (and I am NOT a wimp) - I kept calling the office and they were sympathetic though puzzled (most women recover more quickly and don’t have this degree of pain, but my “pain pathways” have grooves in them, I have had chronic pain for a long time), and they finally prescribed Dilaudid. Wouldn’t you know, it didn’t help me! I was miserable.
Finally! about two weeks post surgery I started to feel a little better, and went out to the barn to see my beloved homebred mare; she was surprisingly gentle with me. I had to be super careful because of all the stitches, and since she was only 3 1/2 (and had been lightly backed the previous fall but had had the winter off), I wasn’t back to riding her yet.
Once I recovered I never looked back! It really is one of the few surgeries (other than joint replacement) that the vast majority of women say they were extremely satisfied with - and also: “I should have had it done sooner.”
If you are on the fence about it, DO NOT HESITATE! I now have so much sympathy for women (especially after a certain age) who have to carry around large and pendulous breasts; it really is a form of torture for many.