Condolences on your loss.
Having gone through a heartbreaking experience with an AQHA mare and the appendix progeny, I’m going to relate my situation in case it’s helpful to you. My experience also pulls in a lot of the advice posters previously shared.
I chose to breed my foundation bred AQHA/IBHA mare in hopes of a top hunter. While that sounds like a fools errand, I didn’t think it was at the time. (Although with distance, I can now understand why others may have believed so.) She was experienced broodmare, top quality all arounder. We won more than our fair share. To this day she had the nicest extended trot I’ve ever seen. And most importantly, this would be a repeat cross and the full sibling was exactly what I wanted, except I wanted a filly. (The dam was retired early due to an injury seemingly related to an earlier accident.) The TB sire came from race lines that also produced some nice performance horses, both TB and AQHA.
The resulting baby ended up half the size of the sibling. But even at 15.2, he had a 15’ stride and a back cracking jump as long as the fence was at least 3’. Could he had made it around a local/regional GP in his heyday? Possibly. But even if he could have done it physically, he didn’t have the mental fortitude required. I won’t describe him as a GP horse because he wasn’t.
The current horse is a GP prospect. She’s by an international GP horse out of a rather talented dam, also sired by an international GP horse. This youngster is confident, beautiful, and has legs for miles. The question isn’t whether she can jump or how high (don’t ask me how I know this ), it’s how high I want to jump. And I prefer not to jump fences I can walk under, TYVM. Adult ammy here.
I love the little guy. No one expected him to be all that talented as he certainly doesn’t look the part. But my emotional side really drove the bus on that one and it’s been quite the journey.
The youngster is the kind of horse that was suggested I buy the first time around. Why didn’t I? Because at that time it was much less expensive for me to breed for such a high quality horse because I already had a phenomenal mare. (I did a lot of research before arriving at that conclusion.) More recently, I have a different horse network that made this youngster possible.
So as someone else recommended, figure out what is most important to you. If you choose to buy a GP prospect, consider utilizing the network being offered. As you may already know, there are many experienced horse people on this forum, many of whom are respected industry professionals. They just might be able to help you find that which you seek.
Best of luck to you and best wishes for a healing :adhesive_bandage:.