[QUOTE=Heinz 57;6977120]
Ok, I’m going to try to be gentle, but I have a couple questions.
First, you’ve only had her since the first of the year, so about 5 months, right? What changed between the XC video and the show jumping video to make you determine that she’s unusable as a riding horse? I’ve sorted through your past posts referencing her and is it just related to her change in personality with her cycles? How does she go with another rider? Is it possible that you are not a good match?
Frankly, in the XC video she seems like a very pleasant, game horse. Green, but relaxed and willing.[/QUOTE]
I was PMing with the OP and was the one who described the phenomenon as being similar to PTSD in a human, except we can’t talk to the horses to help them get through whatever the issue is. I think you’ve seen more of my story with my guy? He’s great 99% of the time, but once every few months something sets him off and it’s like he’s re-living less kind treatment in his past. He’s super sweet, wants to please, tries to be a good boy - then goes into these moments where he’s just not fully there. It’s definitely a history thing from what I understand with my horse, and appears it is for this horse, too. I think she just has the problems more frequently than the maybe 4 times in a year my guy does, which is why it’s a big issue.
By the way - the movement in the first video definitely looked off, but I didn’t necessarily hold that as her regular movement, and suspect the x-country is what you’d be expecting. My TB holds tension and looks extremely lame in front while tense, then works out of it and looks nice. Every time he gets tense, consistently, with the same issues in his movement - which are not there on the rides he’s not tense. (And tense does not equal the days where he appears to be somewhere else mentally, but rather excited about a new situation, trailers pulling in and out, whatever. The kind of sane tense you work through and are fine.)
To me, I like my horses sensitive and requiring kind and consistent treatment, with minds which can be blown in the wrong home and with inconsistent and harsh discipline. I’ve had the kind of horses who are just steady and fabulous, and despite loving working with them, just don’t have the same kind of click as I do with the sensitive ones. This mare sounds like she’s had the kind of treatment sensitive horses can’t handle, rather than that she’s a nut. There are some popular bloodlines I wouldn’t touch with a 10 foot pole for their spookiness, their massive bucking tendencies, or their pigheadedness. The kind of temperament it sounds like this mare has is actually the kind of temperament I find a joy when the horse hasn’t been mentally affected by clumsy treatment elsewhere.