I guess I’m looking for a little commiseration, and/or stories from those who have been through this same “phase”, as I have a wonderful trainer who is helping me work through this.
I have a young (6 year old) warmblood mare that I’ve owned for nearly a year now. She has only been under saddle for a year and a half. She’s a very quiet, lazy, unreactive type. She has always taken some encouragement to pick up the canter (i.e. trots the long side before picking it up), but the last couple of months we’ve been expecting more of her and are asking her to be more responsive and sharp in her transitions, which requires getting after her with the crop when she ignores my leg.
Since then, she’s begun bucking or kicking out in response to the crop. In my mind, I totally get the issue…she doesn’t respect my leg, I tap her with the crop and she still resists by bucking, I tap her again, she bucks again, another tap, and she’ll finally agree and go into the canter. Lots of praise.
She hasn’t come close to unseating me, but it is just getting annoying. I’m just wanting a little more of a “Yes, Ma’am” response from her! She is better with my trainer, but will still pull the same crap when trainer asks her to work a little harder.
We just did a full lameness exam a couple of months ago and I have a full set of xrays. Zero indication this is anything but a phase. So, please tell me at some point she’ll get over this? She’s lovely to ride when she is actually going forward, would love to get over this hump :lol: